Timehop Brings Back Pertussis Memories Too Painful to Forget
Jan 28, 2015
When the Timehop app was introduced to Facebook not everyone was thrilled. While most people loved being reminded of photos and updates shared on Facebook in years past, others complained that there were some events they would prefer not to be reminded of; the loss of a job, the details of a difficult divorce, or the pain of losing someone we love.
Almost three years ago, shortly after Jonathan and Kathryn lost their infant son Brady to pertussis, they reached out to Every Child By Two and expressed an interest in advocating for pertussis vaccinations. They hoped that by sharing their son’s story they could help educate people on the dangers of pertussis and the importance of vaccination, especially in preventing exposure among children, like Brady, who are too young to be vaccinated themselves.
Being tasked to help them write their story was a challenge. How could I ever hope to do it justice?
Then it occurred to me… Kathryn had been recording Brady’s story all along as she continuously updated her friends and family of his condition on Facebook. I read her posts and could immediately empathize with the emotional roller coaster they were on. The hope. The fear. The unimaginable sorrow of watching their beautiful baby suffer, and ultimately lose his life as a result of a preventable disease.
Brady’s story was originally shared here on Shot of Prevention. We then worked to also get it posted to a site called Shot By Shot, which serves as a virtual library of personal stories of vaccine preventable diseases. From there, Brady’s story went viral.
Today we honor all our Every Child By Two parent advocates who continue to help us raise pertussis vaccine awareness. This day not only marks Brady’s third angel-versary, but also the fifth angel-versary of Carter Dube, and later this week the fifth angel-versary of Callie Van Tornhout.
While Timehop may be reminding you of a fun winter outing, a delicious dinner shared among friends, or an exciting new promotion, Brady’s mom Kathryn has been using Timehop with Facebook to remind us of how precious life is. Brady may not be here with us physically, but his battle was not entirely lost. Brady continues to fight today, as his family and friends share his story, in hopes that no more children are lost to pertussis.
💕 my bubba it was the calm before the storm
Ugh I hate this disease!! No family should have to endure this pain vaccination is so important
Our life turned upside down. I remember the ambulance ride and the rushing of the doctors when we reached Boston. We felt like we were dropped in the middle of a tornado everything happening so fast. We entered Boston with our son and left without him. I will also stand by what I advocate. Vaccines are important and save lives. Too many like Brady die because someone chooses not to vaccinate, and he was too young to receive his vaccines.
— feeling heartbroken.
This was my last update of Brady’s health. It was the worst pain to endure. Kissing your baby on the forehead and saying goodbye for the last time is something a parent should never have to do. These communicable diseases are nothing to take lightly. They take babies from there parents, siblings and families. The best line of protection we as parents can give to your own baby as well as other babies like Brady, is vaccination. Another parent should not be planning their child’s funeral because of these diseases. Or anything for that matter. Please light a candle for our bubba and tell his story to at least one other person today 💕
— feeling emotional.
We thank Kathryn for allowing us to share her personal posts, and we continue to thank all the strong and courageous parents who continue to share their personal sorrows in a public way in hopes of a better tomorrow.
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